Courting Tips for Beginners

Having difficulties in courting? Here are some tips that might come in handy

Be friends with her – everything starts from being friends; I mean who in the right mind would say yes if she doesn’t know you. So stop stalking her and man up and talk to her!

Get to know her more – Knowing her more gives you the idea on how to make her like you. Give her hints that you like her but don’t admit! And remember just be YOURSELF. No one wants fake stuff, especially with attitudes.

Body language -the best way of telling the girl that you like her and again don’t admit! Make her wonder. The more she wonders the more she get’s the urge to know you more.

Text her, especially about funny things -Communicate with her about funny things or experiences. We all know girls do fall easily with funny guys but don’t exaggerate. Random but interesting topics would surely suffice. Always avoid dead air even when texting!

Ask her on a date -Well this is the critical stage! She might say no, but take the courage and ask her. Do it smoothly like it’s just a friendly date. It never hurts to try but It really hurts not to try!

Confess – Confessing about how you feel towards a girl is not easy, but if you really want her to be your girl then take this step! Nuff said.

COURT HER! –congratulations you’ve reach this far! The outcome of this depends on how smooth you followed all those steps. Courting isn’t a game. It is the time where you ask the girl if she feels the same way towards you. At this point the girl becomes very vulnerable as she opens up her thoughts to you. Don’t ever take this for granted because when a girl opens up to you it means that she trust you and is willing to take the risk of hurting herself in the process.

So guys remember to never play with a girl’s feelings. It’s a treasure they only share with a person they trust. And if you have doubts on this, try imagining your mom being played by your dad. Does it feel good? I bet not!

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